Myth: Some people ask to be sexually harassed. They do this with how they dress, or how they act. They send "signals". Reality : Being subjected to sexual harassment is a painful, difficult, and frequently traumatic experience. Defenses such as "she wore provocative clothes" and "she enjoyed it" are neither acceptable nor accurate. Myth: If a person really wanted to discourage, or stop, sexual harassment, they could. Reality: Often, the harasser is in a position to punish the recipient by withholding a promotion, giving a bad evaluation, or giving a low grade. In this society, men are known to rationalise their actions by saying that a women's "no" is really a "yes". And often the harassment continues despite the victims's attempt to say "No" or stop the behaviour. Myth: The seriousness of sexual harassment is exaggerated; most "harassment" is really minor, and involves harmless flirtation. Re...